A ghost lover is the fantasy of your perffect partner.
He or she contains all the qualities and charm That
you could want and its just perfect for you (in your own mind).
The embodied relationship That the universe delivers
for you will actually be spiritually perfect
for you and your growth but will often
Trigger and be challenging at times.
You can endure it until you learn the lessons, or you can
Choose to cast it aside as not living up to your ‘List’ of perfect traits,
And rely upon volumes of people you will meet in a lifetime to
Offer you a lucky ticket to a better relationship
The problem with a ghost lover is that he or she is a ghost: unreal.
They are perfect in your mind : because they are a fantasy.
Fantasy relationships do not provide opportunities for real emotional
And sexual matturation beyond basic limits, and so they deny us the
Spiritual growth that would arise from a genuine human relationship.
How do I know if
I need healing in this way?
This healing will be helpful if you feel that your
Relationships (including friendships) could be
More nourishing. If you feel you could receive
More nourishment from yourself, if you have ever battled
With loving or accepting your body,
If you would like to release disorder eating, addictive negative thoughts
About you or your body, or the body of someone else.
If you struggle to accept your sexuality
If you feel inhibited sexually with your partner
Or if you act out sexually, without connecting to your Heart.
If you would like your spiritual life to be more active
In the outer planes - this healing will help.